The Sphinx Summer
My best friend since kindergarten wasn't speaking to me, and I was spending July at Grandma's house with her weird hairless cat.
"His name is Mr. Darcy," Grandma said, setting out a crystal bowl of what looked like expensive kibble. The sphinx cat blinked his enormous eyes at me like he knew something I didn't.
Great. A literary reference I'd get if Maya were here.
Maya. The friend who'd ghosted me three weeks before graduation because I'd chosen the state university over our planned gap year backpacking through Europe. Apparently my responsible financial decision was "selling out" and "not being the person she thought I was."
I spent the first week doom-scrolling through our old text threads and stalking her Instagram stories. She was already in London, living her best life with a new crew of friends who looked effortlessly cool and devastatingly genuine. Meanwhile, I was in a house that smelled like potpourri and ancient opinions, getting side-eye from a naked cat.
But then something weird happened. Mr. Darcy started waiting outside my door every morning, following me from room to room like a velour-covered shadow. When I cried in the bathroom because Maya posted a pic captioned "squad," the sphinx cat sat by my ankles and made these tiny concerned chirps. He slept curled against my stomach every night like a warm, wrinkled potato.
"He never warms up to anyone this fast," Grandma said, surprised. "He must sense something good in you."
Or maybe he just sensed I was desperate.
The night before I was supposed to leave, I sat on Grandma's porch swing, Mr. Darcy purring in my lap, and finally did it. I drafted and deleted seventeen versions of a text to Maya, then just went honest:
"I know you're mad and I respect that. But I miss you and I hope we can figure out how to be friends again, even if we're on different paths. Also, I've bonded with a sphinx cat and he's kind of judgmental but I think you'd like him."
Three minutes later: "Send pictures. Also, I was being dramatic. Europe is stressful and I miss my best friend too."
Some friendships survive growing up. Some get reinvented. And sometimes you have to spend a summer with a sphinx cat to figure out the difference.